Online Gaming: To Be Social, You Need To Be Online
Online gaming is a great way to connect with your mates, have fun, and escape reality for a bit. But have you ever stopped to think about how much of your social life revolves around it?
Being social by gaming
Have you ever thought about how to be social, you need to be online? Almost like you have to physically separated by social media or online gaming to be connected with your mates.
To be online, you need a console or PC, and a good internet connection. If you or your family can’t afford that, or if you just don’t like gaming, you’re kind of left out.
Where else can you hang out with your mates? Not many lads your age want to get your hair or nails done, or to grab a drink from the coffee shop. If you hang out in public spaces like a skate park, you might get labeled as antisocial or troublemakers. Plus, with the cold, wet weather in Wales, it’s not always easy to be outside.
It can be tough. You might feel isolated, frustrated, or even a bit lost. Here are some tips to be more social with your mates outside of online gaming.
Play more couch co-op games
In today’s digital age, it’s easy to forget the joy of playing games together in person. Couch co-op games are a fantastic way to connect with your friends in-person and create lasting memories.
Grab your favourite console or PC, invite your friends over, and dive into a thrilling gaming experience. Whether it’s a classic co-op adventure or a competitive multiplayer game, playing together can strengthen your bonds and create shared experiences.
If playing at home with your pals isn’t an options, or you’re looking to meet new people who share your gaming interests, consider joining a local youth group. Many youth groups have gaming clubs where you can connect with other young people and participate in gaming tournaments and events.
Find other ways to connect
While online gaming is a popular way to socialise, it’s not the only option. There are lots of ways to meet new people and make new friends. Consider joining clubs or sports teams related to your interests. Whether it’s a book club, a chess club, or a football team, these groups offer opportunities to meet people with similar interests.
Volunteering is another excellent way to connect with others while giving back to your community. You can volunteer at local charities, animal shelters, or community centres.
Spending quality time with friends and family is also crucial. Plan activities like board game nights, movie nights, or outdoor adventures to strengthen your relationships.
Embrace your interests
If gaming isn’t your thing, don’t force yourself to fit in. Instead, focus on your own interests and hobbies. Whether it’s music, art, writing, or coding, pursuing your passions can lead to fulfilling friendships and genuine connections.
Join online forums or communities related to your interests to connect with like-minded people. Remember to keep safe online.
Look into going to workshops, classes, or conventions based around your interests to meet new people and learn new skills.
Remember, it’s okay to be different. Embrace your individuality and find people who appreciate you for who you are.
Talk to someone
If you’re feeling isolated, stressed, or anxious, please reach out to someone you trust. Talking with a friend, family member, or therapist can help you process your emotions and develop coping strategies. They can offer support, advice, and a listening ear.
Don’t be afraid to share your feelings, even if it’s difficult. Opening up can help alleviate stress and improve your mental health. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
If you’re not sure who to turn to, you can talk to Meic. Meic is the information, advice and advocacy helpline for children and young people in Wales. It’s free to chat with a helpline adviser every day from 8am to midnight. You can contact the helpline in English or Welsh by phone, WhatsApp message, text, or online chat.
